{"id":551,"date":"2016-01-12T22:55:01","date_gmt":"2016-01-13T06:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/?p=551"},"modified":"2016-02-23T23:00:28","modified_gmt":"2016-02-24T07:00:28","slug":"jennifer-selig-on-vocation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/jennifer-selig-on-vocation\/","title":{"rendered":"When the Gods Come Calling: Dr. Jennifer Selig on Finding One&#8217;s Vocation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">What happens when the gods come calling, from a depth psychological perspective, and how can one be ready when it happens? These are questions that arose when I recently sat down with Dr. Jennifer Selig to discuss her\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/info.pacifica.edu\/the-right-address?__hstc=202165006.09a80c6eff836bc77b20c645a51651b6.1451336195547.1454799951187.1455012255156.22&amp;__hssc=202165006.2.1455012255156&amp;__hsfp=2672192279\"><span style=\"color: #781a00;\">Salon on January 22, 2016: \u201cThe Right Address: How to Be Home When the Gods Come Calling.\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">The title of Selig\u2019s presentation is based on the double meaning of the word \u201caddress.\u201d Not only can the word mean a physical \u201caddress\u201d where you live or work\u2014 where you can typically be found\u2014it\u2019s verb form, while pronounced differently, signifies when someone calls you. \u201cCalling\u201d ties to the word \u201cvocation,\u201d which is based on the Latin vocatus, the past tense of vocare, \u201cto call.\u201d Vocation, from the early 15th century is defined as \u201cspiritual calling.\u201d Thus the word \u201cvocation,\u201d Selig notes, literally means to be called by the gods.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">One\u2019s vocation, as it turns out, is not as much about what we want to do as it is about where the gods would have us be based on the gifts they have bestowed on us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">In his book,\u00a0<em>The Soul\u2019s Code: In Search of Character and Calling<\/em>, Hillman wrote, \u201cWe dull our lives by how we conceive them,\u201d Selig reminded me, so vocation\u2014or calling\u2014is the place where we ultimately express the gifts and talents that come through us but are not necessarily of us; not restricted or constrained by our limited egoic perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">While a vocational school in contemporary culture is perceived to have a very narrow focus on teaching someone a specific trade they can practice in a fairly short period of time, Selig wants to take the word \u201cvocation\u201d back from that narrow perception. All of our lives are a vocation, no matter what kind of work we do in the world, she insists. For that reason, Pacifica is a true vocational school, opening students to the gifts that are wanting to come through them. Selig has noticed that very often, people are called to come to Pacifica without knowing why. They often step onto the campus and have a feeling of being home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">There are many ways of looking at and discerning what\u2019s calling us. It is important as one leans toward their vocation to trust emotion and affect the body is one way of finding your calling. If you pay attention to where you feel the most energy in your work life; where you have the most joy, you can notice where the calling is strong. Myths, dreams, ritual, and synchronicity also show us paths and patterns. Selig points to works from some of the great pioneers of depth psychology, including Freud, Jung, Hillman, and Marion Woodman, to help point the way as we address questions around vocation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">Perhaps the most important thing to discerning calling is paying attention. James Hillman calls attention the cardinal virtue of depth psychology, Selig points out, noting that she has done some writing on that topic and believes it is crucial to pay attention to both the rational and the irrational\u2014both using the brain for the rational or logos perspective, but also to plumb the irrational in the form of dreams, myth, story and image. It goes both ways, she insists: there needs to be balance of both the day and night worlds; the <em>logos<\/em> and the <em>eros<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">Is finding balance a fantasy, though? Selig suggests that rather than simply seeking balance, learning to live with the tensions that are inherent in our lives is tantamount to pursuing the call. For example, she asks, \u201cHow do we hold the tension between what \u201cmakes our heart sing\u201d and having to pay the bills?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\">\u201cYes!\u201d I think, when she asks me this. Jung would have agreed: holding the tension allows a space to emerge in which a new thing can arise\u2014the transcendent function at its best. Does holding the tension, then, open the way so that we are paying attention enough to hear the knock when it comes at our door? Suddenly I find myself I looking very much forward to learning more at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/info.pacifica.edu\/the-right-address?__hstc=202165006.09a80c6eff836bc77b20c645a51651b6.1451336195547.1454799951187.1455012255156.22&amp;__hssc=202165006.2.1455012255156&amp;__hsfp=2672192279\"><span style=\"color: #781a00;\">Jennifer\u2019s Salon presentation on January 22<\/span><\/a>. Who will come knocking there&#8230;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><span style=\"color: #000080; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pacifica.edu\/nh\/selig_gods_calling_salon.mp3?__hstc=202165006.09a80c6eff836bc77b20c645a51651b6.1451336195547.1454799951187.1455012255156.22&amp;__hssc=202165006.2.1455012255156&amp;__hsfp=2672192279\">Click here to listen to the full audio interview with Dr. Jennifer Selig.<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><strong>Sources<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><br \/>\nHillman, James. (1996).\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pacificabookstore.com\/souls-code-search-character-and-calling\"><span style=\"color: #781a00;\"><em>The Soul\u2019s Code: In Search of Character and Calling<\/em><\/span><\/a>. New York, NY: Random House, p. 5.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/etymonline.com\/index.php?term=vocation&amp;allowed_in_frame=0\">Online Etymology Dictionary<\/a>: <em>vocation<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"jennifer_selig.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn2.hubspot.net\/hub\/435563\/hubfs\/Headshots\/jennifer_selig.jpg?t=1454976726355&amp;width=150\" alt=\"jennifer_selig.jpg\" width=\"150\" align=\"left\" data-constrained=\"true\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 9pt;\"><strong>Jennifer Selig, Ph.D.<\/strong> is founding chair of Pacifica&#8217;s\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pacifica.edu\/degree-programs\/ma-phd-jungian-archetypal-studies?__hstc=202165006.09a80c6eff836bc77b20c645a51651b6.1451336195547.1454799951187.1455012255156.22&amp;__hssc=202165006.2.1455012255156&amp;__hsfp=2672192279\"><span style=\"color: #781a00; font-size: 9pt;\">Jungian and Archetypal Studies Specialization<\/span><\/a>\u00a0and the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pacifica.edu\/degree-programs\/ma-engaged-humanities-creative-life?__hstc=202165006.09a80c6eff836bc77b20c645a51651b6.1451336195547.1454799951187.1455012255156.22&amp;__hssc=202165006.2.1455012255156&amp;__hsfp=2672192279\"><span style=\"color: #781a00;\">M.A. Engaged Humanities and the Creative Life Program<\/span><\/a>. Dr. Selig currently teaches in both programs, is a published author of many books including Integration:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pacificabookstore.com\/integration-psychology-and-mythology-martin-luther-king-jr-and-his-unfinished-therapy-soul-america\"><span style=\"color: #781a00; font-size: 9pt;\">The Psychology and Mythology of Martin Luther King, Jr. and His (Unfinished) Therapy with the Soul of America<\/span><\/a>; a photographer; and writer of non-fiction and screenplays.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This blog also cross posted at www.PacificaPost.com and www.DepthPsychologyList.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What happens when the gods come calling, from a depth psychological perspective, and how can one be ready when it happens? These are questions that arose when I recently sat down with Dr. Jennifer Selig to discuss her\u00a0Salon on January 22, 2016: \u201cThe Right Address: How to Be Home When the Gods Come Calling.\u201d The title of Selig\u2019s presentation is based on the double meaning of the word \u201caddress.\u201d Not only can the word mean a physical \u201caddress\u201d where you live or work\u2014 where you can typically be found\u2014it\u2019s verb form, while pronounced differently, signifies when someone calls you. \u201cCalling\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[31,22,160,162,161],"class_list":["post-551","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-depthpsychology","tag-depth-psychology","tag-archetypes","tag-calling","tag-pacifica","tag-vocation"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/551","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=551"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/551\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":552,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/551\/revisions\/552"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=551"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=551"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.depthinsights.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=551"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}